You’re at a restaurant waiting for the person you met online to arrive for your first date. You’re so excited to meet your potential “happily ever after,” but so nervous you might say something wrong and stick your foot in your mouth. These months of sitting home have made us all a little socially awkward!

To keep things going smoothly on your first date, here are a few topics to avoid:

1. How awful your ex was
Talking about a person you’re no longer with sends a few messages to your date, especially if you do it in a negative way. You might send the impression that you haven’t gotten over your ex or that you’re comparing your ex to your new date. Either way, it makes a poor first impression and can sour the whole outing.

2. Too much talk about yourself
First-date conversations should be like a tennis match, with back and forth between both people. Asking your date questions about themself shows that you’re interested in them. Don’t know what to ask? Talk to them about hobbies, music, books, their family, or what makes them happy!

3. Controversial topics like politics or religion
Those are 2nd date conversations at the very earliest. In all seriousness, these topics can be intimidating and heavy for a first date. Instead, use the first date to get to know the other person. If you decide to continue seeing them, find out their political standing later on.

4. How much money you have
Bringing up finances with your partner is often a taboo subject, but it should definitely be avoided on a first date. If you do decide to bring up money, tread very carefully. Talking too much about your wealth, or lack thereof can make you look shallow and give your date the wrong impression. There are ways to bring up financial goals without sending the message that money is the most important thing to you. Try discussing life goals like graduating, buying a house, or travelling.

5. Complaining about the wait staff
Being a rude diner is a sure way to guarantee you won’t get a 2nd date. When you throw a tantrum at your server, you’re not only embarrassing yourself but embarrassing your date as well. Plus, it’s a huge red flag that you could also treat your date poorly after knowing them for a while.

6. Family or work drama
Bringing your best self to a first date means leaving all the negativity at home. A date is for enjoying yourself and learning about the other person. It shouldn’t turn into a therapy session. Discussing problems regarding work and family may also make it look like you are often involved in dramatic situations.